Polo Match Etiquette: What to Wear and Serve Tailgating!
Hold your horses; it’s polo time! Attending your very first polo match? It will be an absolute delight… provided you are properly prepared for what to wear and how to tailgate. Polo is a thrilling piece of living history dating back over two thousand years. Its noble heritage serves as a gentle reminder that your […]
Hostess Etiquette: Taking the Mystery Out of the Dress Code
The golden rule of hosting is simple. We want our guests to feel entirely at ease and enjoy themselves! Yet, even the most seasoned hostesses can make a dress code assumption, which can lead to a rather awkward, yet entirely well-intentioned, mishap. A dear friend of mine recently invited a group of ladies for a […]
Restaurant Etiquette: How to Be a Gracious Dinner Guest
How grateful I am to my parents for instilling in me the old-school rules for being a truly gracious and grateful guest when invited out for a meal. They also shared with me a golden rule for hosting. You simply do not invite someone to dinner unless you can afford their free choice. With that […]
Monograms on Sheets!
Who doesn’t adore beautiful bed linens?! Seeing and feeling crisply ironed sheets instantly brings back memories of various beloved venues, the way a scent or sound will trigger feelings from the past. I vividly remember flying to London with our elder daughter, Alexandra, then age ten. We were invited to stay at a relative’s elegant […]
Guardians of Charm: The Magic of Foo Dogs!
Foo dogs, also known as Chinese guardian lions, hold great cultural significance in Eastern art and history. These mythical beings, traditionally found in pairs, stand guard at the entrances of grand palaces, temples, and estates. Considered the majestic sentinels of the spirit world, they protect sacred spaces from negative energies and unwanted guests. Incorporating foo […]
Proper Protocol On How To Greet A Friend Who Is Dining With Others
Have you ever been enjoying a delightful dinner at a restaurant or a private Club, deep in conversation, only to have an acquaintance spot you and walk over to your table? A spontaneous greeting is a lovely gesture, but far too often a well‑meaning friend overstays their welcome, right? A quick hello turns into a […]
The Power of the Pin: The Secret Language of Brooches
I have always thought of a jewelry box as so much more than just a place for pretty things. It’s really a lady’s quietest form of diplomacy. While a necklace sits quietly, a brooch serves as an envoy for your personality, purpose, and intentions. It is the ultimate secret weapon for a lady who […]
The Art of the Thoughtful Guest: Honoring Hosts and Elders at Celebrations
The quintessence of genteel living is found in the gracious intentionality of our interactions with others! Throughout the year, especially spring and summer, many of us are invited to attend some of life’s most significant milestones—from baptisms and confirmations to graduations and weddings. A truly thoughtful guest “steps up to the plate” by taking the […]
To cut or not to cut your salad!
Last evening, while dining on Worth Avenue, my attention was drawn to a gentleman at a nearby table. While well-dressed for dinner, he held his silver fork in a “fist grip,” as if preparing for a duel rather than a delicate salad starter! Watching him struggle with a spirited leaf of Romaine, I realized that […]
Why are Porch Ceilings Blue? From Nile Villages to Historic U.S. Houses!
Lately, there has been quite a bit of talk about “Cerulean Blue” making a comeback in the upcoming Devil Wears Prada sequel… which I can’t wait to see! While fashion trends come and go, I’ve always been drawn to colors that carry a bit of history and purpose, which inspired me to talk about how […]
Embracing Elegance: The timeless art of graceful deportment!
In a world where technology consumes our attention, good posture and graceful deportment can often be overlooked! While attending an afternoon tea in NYC, a lovely young lady approached me to chat. I admired her posture and the way she held her head high; she was incredibly graceful. After a while, I inquired if she […]
How to avoid “hat-hair!”
Pretty hats have adorned ladies’ heads for centuries. Give me an occasion, like a European wedding, horse race, or Easter Sunday, and out comes my collection of pretty hats. I adore wearing them! Do you? I realize now, more than before, how imperative it is to wear my “casual straw hats” when I am outdoors […]