
A Gracious Secret: Where Should Ladies Place Their Handbags at Your Party?
The true secret to seamless, elegant entertaining is anticipating your guests needs… before they have to ask you! Make your guests feel cared for the moment they cross the threshold into your home. A dear subscriber inquired: “When guests come for dinner, should I direct ladies to a place where they may place their handbags?” Yes, indeed! For a small gathering, less than a dozen ladies, my approach is to offer a joyful welcome, and then gently ask, “Would you care to place your handbag down?” while gesturing toward a predetermined chair or bench in the hall, or even a table if you have one conveniently located by the front door. (This same designated place can also hold their hostess gifts.) By asking a lady this gracious inquiry straightaway, it will immediately put your guest at ease; you’ve given her permission and a designated space to place whatever she wishes.




